Change Yourself Before Changing the World
Once satya guru was asked, what’s left in your life which you think you desperately want and he replied in a very funny way that he wants more positive change in his life...
Once satya guru was asked, what’s left in your life which you think you desperately want and he replied in a very funny way that he wants more positive change in his life. Everyone was amused to see that why do he need such a change when he himself is well-known to be a wise and a change maker so it’s imperative to say, you need more positive change in you to bring change in the society. Change is something that every country, every individual is looking forward for and ultimate change is never ending desire. Many wise personalities especially monks were asked how we can bring more change in our self and how it is possible to push the benchmark every time. Many of them had a common answer and it was buddha drag him to ultimate change when he had everything in his life and hadn’t have to worry about his future, he left all those temporary assets and pushed him for change to the world. He made this decision because he realized that One day, we all have to grow old; we get sick someday and we have to die someday. This was enough for him to change his life so your one gel is enough to take you to the journey of the change maker. Here I am not talking about taking the route of buddha and dissolve your lifetime for such change but I am trying to make you aware about the ultimate self-change that people can drag themselves for inner peace so every one of us need to make some commitments about what real change is for you and step up a small approach that can bring new horizons in your life. Always remember the fact that at the end of our days, we have to make sure that we were the roots for some change and need to be proud for our approach.
To be precise, today I am not trying to outreach the intense spectrum of Change maker, I just want to make people aware that every change that you make in your life which brings happiness in you will automatically contribute some sort of change and positive fragrances to the society. People have a multi explanation of who the change makers are but for me, those are the change makers who first start from them to their own house and to their society. I frequently woke up early in the morning and wrap up my works and meditation and do some house work such as cleaning the room, periphery of my house and give myself for around 1 hour walk as morning walk, I get to interact with tremendous people in my day to day life and perceive their perception and I feel so happy that I can learn tremendous things from them. Let me share a very interesting story about a discussion about house maid among my fellow morning walk friends once in our morning walk, one of the new members was expressing his views about youth and change needed in the country. I find that every one of us are hungry about the positive change in the country. We had a very interesting conversation and he said, finding good maid in Kathmandu have been a very challenging task as very limited people are loyal and can be trusted so he said he had hired part time maid who comes to his house every morning and evening and does house cleaning, utensils cleaning, washing cloths etc. He was recommending us to have the same maid if we want and that would be good for us. I had some queries and ask him about the task that he used to assign the maid and that was normal house work so I asked him, why you need a maid to do such common work and he said he along with his wife and two children are employed and they have limited time to do this task so he had to hire the maid. I said him that you talked so much about change and your concern about Countries development is so awesome so why can’t you manage your time to do such simple common house work by yourself and I again posed him if his father was a rich person , he smiled at me and said no he was a farmer and lives in remote place called Sindupalchock because he is happy to stay in his birth place. It was quite interesting for me so I again asked him so you do not know how to clean the stuff and do such works, he said no I used to do lot of work in field and even now they have rice field and their family grow many such stuff.
I now realize that people want comfort in their life and in the name of comfort and certain limited fame and money, they do not even want to do their simple daily activities by themself than my heart said now what we can expect from his children in the future where they are learning such culture in their house where their Parents are hiring external person to do such simple stuff. If you think, having fine paying job and good living stander can make you so sophisticated that you can’t even manage time for your own house and stuff than I do not think we can expect those people to change the society because change starts from you first. I do not think he have time limitation else how could he have time for morning walk, I always have a concern that our deeds and behavior is what our offspring gone copy and if we have such deeds than I think we are not going far away and not taking this society far enough in term of change. I am not trying to be judgmental but at any cost if we can’t have time for our own deeds for our house and family than how are we influencing the anatomy of the society. So, if I have to say what really a change is? For me, change is all about giving time to you, to your small deeds and to your family and your office. If you can manage time to all this sector and if you are happy for your life and think that your offspring are learning best from you than you are automatically brining positive change to the society. Your house and its environment going to extend that change fragrance to your neighbors and ultimately helps to spread it to the society. Being progressive is what change makers are for me, for me change makers are them who can bring positive influence to the society by being the examples for best ambassador of your house before the society or county.
Today I can see, people are hungry for good education, they are ready to pay any amount for so called excellent institution for their kids and it’s a matter of proudness for them that their kids are studying in such a great institution but let me remind all that we parents are the first teachers and house is the first institution and its absolute truth and many research have shown that kids learn 60-70% from home and 30-40% from institution so it’s the time where we need to think that, Is our home environment is providing that best platform to our kids ?, Are they getting that world class practical approach in our own inhouse environment ? It is also very important that if you want your child or anyone to change than it must start from absolute you. Are you interested in changing yourself? If your answer is Yes than you have step up the first step of Changing the world so your next step must be changing and managing your time table for you and your family and kids. Then, any approach would be highly appreciated that you can bring to change the society and its gone be sustainable as well. So, getting back to the initial stage of the article, my words would be what next change you can bring to the society should be something like it’s to bring more change in yourself and this lead you in a route of progression. Many people have a perception that they are unable to bring change to the society, if they are committed for brining change in them, bring change in their family, bring change in their kids than you must be proud that you are the real change maker of this world who is the real change ambassador and can influence the whole world. Be Ready to make it your habit so that you do not have to feel reluctant after sometime. Let’s be the real change makers.